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Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Tuesday, 29 December 2015

ISIS Ruling Aims To Settle Who Can Have Sex With Female Slaves



 ISIS theologians have issued an extremely detailed ruling on when "owners" of women enslaved by the extremist group can have sex with them, in an apparent bid to curb what they called violations in the treatment of captured females.
ISIS Ruling Aims To Settle Who Can Have Sex With Female Slaves
The ruling or fatwa has the force of law and appears to go beyond the ISIS's previous known utterances on the subject, a leading ISIS scholar said. It sheds new light on how the group is trying to reinterpret centuries-old teachings to justify the sexual slavery of women in the swaths of Syria and Iraq it controls.

To read the fatwa click here: http://graphics.thomsonreuters.com/doc/slaves_fatwa.pdf

The fatwa was among a huge trove of documents captured by US Special Operations Forces during a raid targeting a top Islamic State official in Syria in May. Reuters has reviewed some of the documents, which have not been previously published.

Among the religious rulings are bans on a father and son having sex with the same female slave; and the owner of a mother and daughter having sex with both. Joint owners of a female captive are similarly enjoined from intercourse because she is viewed as "part of a joint ownership."

The United Nations and human rights groups have accused the ISIS of the systematic abduction and rape of thousands of women and girls as young as 12, especially members of the Yazidi minority in northern Iraq. Many have been given to fighters as a reward or sold as sex slaves.

Far from trying to conceal the practice, ISIS has boasted about it and established a department of "war spoils" to manage slavery. Reuters reported on the existence of the department on Monday.

In an April report, Human Rights Watch interviewed 20 female escapees who recounted how ISIS  fighters separated young women and girls from men and boys and older women. They were moved "in an organized and methodical fashion to various places in Iraq and Syria." They were then sold or given as gifts and repeatedly raped or subjected to sexual violence.

Dos And Don'ts

Fatwa No. 64, dated Jan. 29, 2015, and issued by ISIS's Committee of Research and Fatwas, appears to codify sexual relations between ISIS fighters and their female captives for the first time, going further than a pamphlet issued by the group in 2014 on how to treat slaves.

The fatwa starts with a question: "Some of the brothers have committed violations in the matter of the treatment of the female slaves. These violations are not permitted by Sharia law because these rules have not been dealt with in ages. Are there any warnings pertaining to this matter?"

It then lists 15 injunctions, which in some instances go into explicit detail. For example:

"If the owner of a female captive, who has a daughter suitable for intercourse, has sexual relations with the latter, he is not permitted to have intercourse with her mother and she is permanently off limits to him. Should he have intercourse with her mother then he is not permitted to have intercourse with her daughter and she is to be off limits to him."

ISIS's sexual exploitation of female captives has been well documented, but a leading ISIS expert at Princeton University, Cole Bunzel, who has reviewed many of the group's writings, said the fatwa went beyond what has previously been published by the militants on how to treat female slaves.

"It reveals the actual concerns of IS slave owners," he said in an email.

Still, he cautioned that not "everything dealt with in the fatwa is indicative of a relevant violation. It doesn't mean father and son were necessarily sharing a girl. They're at least being 'warned' not to. But I bet some of these violations were being committed."

The fatwa also instructs owners of female slaves to "show compassion towards her, be kind to her, not humiliate her, and not assign her work she is unable to perform." An owner should also not sell her to an individual whom he knows will mistreat her.

Professor Abdel Fattah Alawari, dean of Islamic Theology at Al-Azhar University, a 1,000-year-old Egyptian centre for Islamic learning, said ISIS "has nothing to do with Islam" and was deliberately misreading centuries-old verses and sayings that were originally designed to end, rather than encourage, slavery.

"Islam preaches freedom to slaves, not slavery. Slavery was the status quo when Islam came around," he said. "Judaism, Christianity, Greek, Roman, and Persian civilizations all practiced it and took the females of their enemies as sex slaves. So Islam found this abhorrent practice and worked to gradually remove it."

In September 2014 more than 120 Islamic scholars from around the world issued an open letter to ISIS leader Abu Bakr al-Baghdadi refuting the group's religious arguments to justify many of its actions. The scholars noted that the "reintroduction of slavery is forbidden in Islam."


Thursday, 24 December 2015

Mangaluru-based activist faces online abuse, rape threats, for complaining against Bajrang Dal




A Mangaluru-based activist is being targeted online with abuse and rape threats after she complained against Bajrang Dal activists who allegedly intimidated cinema halls into stopping the screening of Shah Rukh Khan-starrer Dilwale.
On Monday, Mangaluru North police station registered an FIR against the state convenor of the Bajrang Dal Sharan Pumpwell and others for causing a ‘climate of fear’ among theatre owners and the public. Various sections of the IPC including causing criminal intimidation and criminal trespassing have been invoked.
In the two days since, numerous people targeted activist Vidya Dinker on Facebook with sexually coloured abuse including rape threats and other insults. Vidya says she will file a complaint against the abuse on Thursday.

Bajrang Dal activists in Mangaluru had protested against the screening of the film following Shah Rukh Khan’s comments on intolerance on November 2. They also asked for a ban on the screening of Aamir Khan’s films for the same reasons. 
“I heard a few people, who had booked tickets for Shah Rukh’s Dilwale, complain that when they went to the theatre on Sunday evening theatre owners offered a refund as the movie would not be screened,” Dinker said.
“I was told by a theatre owner that on Sunday right-wing activists came to the theatre asking that the 4 pm to 7 pm screening that was mid-way be stopped. However, the right-wing activists agreed let the ongoing  show get over and cancel screening thereafter,” Dinker said.

Having waited until Tuesday for screenings to resume, the dismayed activist went to speak to the head of a cinema chain at a mall in the city. She said that owners told her that they had been intimidated into giving up screening the film.
“The complete fear that they have managed to instil in everyone means that there is a parallel criminal justice system at work,” she said, adding that she and some others met the police commissioner urging action against such intimidation.
Dinker told The News Minute that the police were reluctant to take the complaint as they claimed that the theatre owners could have voluntarily not screened the film and the police cannot take action.
Vidya said that one franchisee of a multiplex had told her that Bajrang Dal activists had torn the poster on the ground floor of the mall and that they were worried that damage would follow if they went ahead with the screening.
Sharan Pumpwell, state president of Bajrang Dal told The News Minute that the activists only “requested” theatre owners not to screen Shah Rukh Khan’s film and that Dinker’s claims are baseless.
“We did not cause any physical damage as Vidya Dinker claims. The theatre owners themselves respected our sentiments and agreed to stop the screening,” said Pumpwell.

It is an open secret that some influential leaders of Hindutva groups have security contracts in more than one of the three malls in Mangaluru.
“The police also told me that they would take action if the theatre owners complain.  But owners are reluctant as they have long-term survival in mind,” she said.
“When a business is run with fear of these local goons in the back of their mind and when there is no confidence in the police that itself should be reason for the police to take a Suo motu action,” she added.


Wednesday, 16 December 2015

Shag Away These 7 Masturbation Myths… For Good

Just like sex, masturbation is a taboo and a major topic of discussion. Where men usually bring up the topic jokingly, women prefer whispering about the same.
You rarely hear a serious conversation about masturbation.
In order to propel discussion on the related subject, it is firstly important to accept masturbation as a natural act and not see it as something shameful.
There are many benefits of masturbating and side-effects, if done excessively. You may also come across certain myths about the same that you need to do away with immediately –
Masturbation Myths
Myth 1 – Masturbation is for a Certain Age Group Only
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People of all ages masturbate
There is no age bar when it comes to masturbation. It is an act in which you can engage at any point of time in life. Usually, puberty hits boys around the age of 13 years and lasts throughout their lives. As per surveys conducted, 70-95% of males and females masturbate to cater to their sexual needs.
Myth 2 – Masturbation is Fake Sex
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Masturbation is not fake sex
Masturbation arouses people, just like sex does. Erection, natural lubrication and ejaculation are all part of it. Besides, while ejaculation, people experience real orgasm, which is healthy. Health experts claim that masturbation is as real as kissing, having intercourse and reaching orgasm while at it.
Myth 3 – Women Don’t Masturbate
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Women do masturbate

Women DO masturbate. They have needs, just like men. Obviously, the way they masturbate is different as compared to men; their methods vary, too. Where some women prefer watching porn during the act, others fantasise their wishes while going on with the business. But yes, saying that women do not masturbate is totally false.
Myth 4 – Masturbation Causes Blindness
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Masturbation does not cause blindness
This is one of the most ridiculous fables related to masturbation. When doctors claim the act as having medical benefits, why do people contradict it with nonsensical claims? Instead, it facilitates in stress relief, keeping menstrual cramps at bay and PMS.
Myth 5 – Couples Do Not Masturbate
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Couples masturbate, too
Wrong. Regardless of whether people are single or in a relationship, the urge to masturbate comes naturally. In fact, people in relationships at times masturbate together. It is also a common for people in relationship to feel jealous of one another when they masturbate and link it to cheating. Such couples need to realise that people have different levels of sexual desire and there is nothing wrong with it.

Myth 6 – Only Adults Masturbate
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Though not like adults, children masturbate, too
It is also a common notion among adults that only they masturbate because they “know” sex. Children also engage in masturbation, but not how adults know them. Even the younger ones touch themselves, but not like the adults do. They are just curious and it feels good when they touch their genitals. Ultrasounds have been found showing foetuses touching their sex organs while in the utero.
Myth 7 – Masturbation Causes STDs

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Masturbation does not cause STDs
Sexually transmitted disease is caused only through skin-to-skin contact. Other than that, transmission of bodily fluids is another reason for contracting STDs. Since both of these do not occur during masturbation, contracting STDs is impossible.



Thursday, 3 December 2015

Don’t Panic! Your Instagram (Probably) Wasn’t Just Hacked


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About two hours ago, I got a flurry of text messages from my family.

“My Instagram got hacked!” one read.
“I can’t log into Instagram! I got a notification saying I’d been logged out!”
You too?
Don’t panic. A bunch of people got those alerts — and no, it wasn’t a big ol’ mega hack.
It’s unclear exactly what happened, but Instagram says it wasn’t the result of something malicious. Just “a bug”, they say — and one that should be fixed now.
Carry on posting pictures of your coffee, shoes, and things perfectly centered from above.


Saturday, 28 November 2015

How To Hire A Dedicated Boyfriend!

*This is a fictional piece, written for entertainment purposes only*
Anika was nursing her fourth messy break-up in two months.
Was it her own high demands the reason behind the heartbreaks? Or was she expecting just too much out of a relationship?

Did anybody really have a ‘happily ever after’, she wondered.
While she was browsing through the newspapers, a thought struck her. Why not ‘hire’ a boyfriend? A custom-designed guy who would hang out with her and be a dedicated partner for life. And if she manages to fall in love with him, great! She would immediately arrange for a screening process where prospective ‘boyfriends’ can come and get ‘hired’. She would also pay them handsomely, so more and more guys would apply.
She was never really worried about the turnout. After all, it’s the same society where Rakhi Sawant’s swayamwar gets more mileage than politics. She was worried about what and what not to ask, in order to filter out the flak from the bunch. Once she saw the number of guys who had come for the ‘job’, she instinctively knew what to do.
She took a deep breath and called her first ‘prospect’ to the interview chambers.
‘Hey, thanks for coming. Your name?’ She asked. Her tone was playful bordering on sing-song so that the guy didn’t feel nervous about the whole ‘weird’ set up.
‘Ajay. Don’t thank me. I am here only for the money.’ He said. His tone was playful too.
‘Umm…right. Well, what qualities you have that I should hire you?’
‘As I said, I am here for the big bucks. So, I will stay faithful as long as crap doesn’t hit the roof’. He paused and looked her in the eye. He was the type who knew what he wanted. ‘Anything else?’
‘Did you ever have a girlfriend?’
‘If I did, I wouldn’t be here. You’ll be my first’. Hmmm.
‘Please drop your CV and application form here. I shall let you know.’
He walked away without as much as a glance in her direction. She didn’t bother about it either. It was her parade, after all.
The second guy to walk in was quite cool. She liked him. Hmm.
‘Hi, thanks for coming. Your name?’
‘Rahul, mam’, he smiled. He had a nice smile…hmm.
‘Tell me…why do you want to apply for this post?’
‘I have been FB-stalking, Instgram-stalking, iOS-mapping and generally following you around since you moved into my neighbourhood two months ago.’
‘Wha…?’ She was stunned. Who the hell was this guy!
‘Yes, mam. I didn’t like your third boyfriend. Cheap tipper. But the second one? He was okay. I liked the last one…a little bossy, but cute.’
‘Get out’
‘Uh? I am here to get hired right away’
‘Get out of here, you freak’
‘Oh…I am the freak? You have organized this crazy shit. Who ‘hires’ love?’
‘Goddamn it. This is just to get back with my ex. Now get out!’

‘Which ex?’
‘Get out or I will call the security…WATCHMAN!’
‘Mam, I am the watchman’. He smiled. His smile was blank, his eyes were blank, but his hands were slowly reaching out to his favourite ‘malkin’.


10 Funny Matrimonial Ads That Will Leave You In Splits

Marriage is an important ‘ritual’ in our society. And a fair bride is even more important. Unlike the west where couples meet, date, fall in love and walk down the aisle. In our culture, the couple first ties the knot and then falls in love (if at all).
So it’s no wonder that we have plenty of funny matrimonial ads that will leave you in splits. We bring to you ten of the best from our lot…Read on!

#1: “Require girl for marriage she should be very pretty very sleem and have one brother one sister.”
Don’t know why he specifically wants one brother and one sister…hmm. We are confused too!


#2: “i am very handsome and pretty I want marry very beautiful girl who will respect my family pets etc’ 
You know he is for keeps when he uses ‘etc’ in the ad.
#3: ‘I am very good cook I want girl also very good cook. Please contact me very early as i am waiting to get married.’
At least he can cook!

#4: ‘in every part of my life only her image exists…see in your self she is with you…if you love her then every one afterter…I love pets’
Does he want a pet or a wife?!

#5: ‘I want very much enjoyment in life so i want to get marry…if you also want to enjoy please contact me’
Somebody tell him that marriage isn’t that enjoyable!

#6: ‘Want very fair girl for immediate marrige’
Yes, sir. No time like the present.

#7: ‘I am Brahmin cast but eat all non-veg items. If you like non-veg items accept my marriage’Please marry him before he publishes more such ads.
#8: ‘I am very much love marry and want great awesome wife thanks’
He is the man.
#9: ‘if my mother like her then i will marry her please send all pictures to mother’
He is a mamma’s boy. Clearly.

#10: ‘I am very honest good looking boy. I want poor rich beautiful girl’
Poor, rich? Wha!

Girls, we hope you are having a good mid-week ROFL moment.
But on a serious note, would you marry somebody like those mentioned above?!


Tuesday, 24 November 2015

The Cheap and Effective Cancer Treatment Oncologists Don’t Want You To Know About

Given that cancer is one of the most common and terrifying diagnoses across the world today, it should come as no surprise that it is one of the biggest focuses in medical research. However, what would you say if you found out that the most effective cancer treatments were being hidden from you?
Quite a few alternative health experts believe that is the case, as less expensive and less invasive treatments are ignored and overlooked in favor of treatments like radiation and chemotherapy.  Baking soda, which costs just a couple dollars per box, has actually been found to be very effective in the treatment of cancer.
Learn more about this treatment and how you can use it.

Why Use Baking Soda?

People started looking into baking soda as a treatment because of the side effects that come with conventional cancer treatments. Both chemotherapy and radiation can cause significant damage to other cells in your body, destroying your immune system and putting you at risk for death.
On the other hand, baking soda doesn’t have any side effects. You ingest it orally every day and enjoy the benefits. Baking soda works because it is a basic solution. Many alternative cancer therapies are focused on keeping the pH level of the body from becoming too acidic, since cancer cells thrive in acidic environments.

Why This Method Has Been Ignored

To put it simply, doctors and researchers have ignored the baking soda treatment because anyone can do it and anyone can afford it. Chemotherapy and radiation are extremely expensive, and insurance companies pay out millions of dollars every year to doctors and facilities for these procedures.
Cancer is a fairly big moneymaker in the medical industry, and if people can treat it themselves, there goes a huge source of revenue for many medical professionals.

The Baking Soda Protocol

Knowing how to use baking soda properly is the key to making this technique work for you. Oral consumption is the most important procedure to use, but there are also things you can do to make baking soda work more effectively. Follow these steps:
  1. Pour 2 cups of room temperature water into a glass. Ideally, this water should have a high magnesium content, as this improves the function of baking soda.
  2. Stir in 2 rounded teaspoons of baking soda. Stir until it is dissolved.
  3. Add a pinch of sweetener of your choice.
  4. Sip this mixture over the course of one to two hours.
  5. Repeat 3 times per day for best results.

In addition, you may want to use baking soda transdermally. This allows the body to absorb it through your skin. Simply run a warm or hot bath and sprinkle 1 cup of baking soda into your bath. Give yourself plenty of time to soak in the bath. Repeat as desired.You have the tools you need to make the most of your health and prevent deadly diseases.
Whether you are trying to fight an existing case of cancer or you simply want to keep this disease from taking root in your body, baking soda is here to help.


Finding Marriage Material Online!

Can online meetings result in happily ever afters? Are people really serious of meeting their life partners? Can you trust? We get into the skin of the growing trend of finding online matches.
Priti is an executive with a MNC, in Gurgaon. She has six days a week office and a seven-figure salary that she would not want to give up for anything in the world. “I have worked hard to reach where I have, why should I give up?” she says. Trouble is that she is reaching 30 and everyone around her wan’ts her to get married. “I haven’t found anyone yet.” She laments. “Some friend has suggested online matrimonial portals but I am not sure if I will find a decent match there. I think it’s just time pass.”



Rajat,29, working in an advertising company in Mumbai says, “I have been looking for a bride on a portal for almost two years. But nothing happened. A lot of girls show interest but there is no response to even a hello.”
Online dating and matrimony has caught up like a wildfire in India. With a growing middle class and rising individuality, more people are finding that the matches are not only made in heaven but also on websites. It’s fast, easy, personal and secure. You can find, browse profiles, see pictures, even match horoscopes and send interests. Then wait for the other person to respond. There is a decline option as well to politely decline someone’s ‘phantasy’ over you, without actually meeting in person. “It’s virtual. It’s so much less embarrassing. And you forget about it next day because everyone comes online with the same mindset,”says Asha.
With such dating sites being easily available, many people tend to take advantage of them as well. With a mindset of finding a quick fix for date and or just ‘pataofying’ the girl, some people can be dubious, so everyone should be careful. Radhika was duped by a guy who posed all the handsome pictures and sweet talked into meeting her. She found out he was just someone totally different.

Websites have come up for people with disabilities, specific communities, divorced and widowed people, who can also find love the second time. Dating websites and applications have started for sexual minorities as well. And their rising popularity only shows that whether you find love or not, you want to try them once, fefore you get hitched for lifetime.
Online portals are also coming up in a big way as the sponsors of prime time youth and television shows. This shows their growing potential. With a leading website claiming to have made two million matches online, this is then just the beginning.


Monday, 16 November 2015

11 Things That Instantly Make You LESS Attractive!

If you think good looks, chiseled body and happening clothes can make any one attractive and enticing, then you have wrong notions. Of course these traits adds on to  attraction  but certain things which are done by some good looking men and women make them appear like a ‘duh’.
Below are some things that instantly make you less attractive!
  1. Being rude and complaining way too much.
Nobody would like you to be rude towards anybody especially when you talk badly to service industry people. How someone treats people tell a lot about their personality.
  1. When guys smell awful.

Anybody will feel disgusted if they meet people who smell terrible.
  1. When they have no passion…goals in life.
Your attitude towards life and career can actually make you appear in good or bad light. Being dependent is very big turn off for any one.
  1. When guys try to be like others and not yourself.
Being yourself, accepting the way you are or loving thyself is more attractive than concealing your own identity. If you are vying to be some other in order to create a good impression then you are on a wrong path.
  1. Lazy for anything and everything.
If you are the chairman of the lazy club is not a good post at all. Being a doormat is not at all appreciated. So thwart that passive mode and get going now.
  1. Over confident or not at all confident
No one would agree that they are over co if you not confident and fidgeting all the times then you must stop it right away.
  1. Argumentative- no matter what we will defy all.
Person who get easily offended and find most of things offensive let us make hit that turn off button.
  1. Who likes to shout at top of the voice with a shrill tone!
This trait is very important as high pitched tone is hated by all. Try and lower your voice in all situations so that you can appear sane and attractive every time.
  1. When they behave as Mr. /Ms. I Know It All and those are close minded.
People who showcase themselves as if they are best in everything and know everything must stop doing it. Instead one should be humble enough to stand up and say that they would
  1. Who are married to their phones!
People who have their heads always in their PCs, laptops ans mobile can make any one annoy. If you really want to be welcomed by all then one should stop being glued to your mobile screens.
  1. Way too Judgemental and Pessimist!

Those who have pre conceived notions on everything and who too pessimist and close minded.

One should not only put their effort into their presentation and their looks but also in their behaviour to be attractive till eternity.


5 Reasons Why Eating Fish Is Healthy For You!

Apart from being slurpy yummy, eating fish is also healthy for us. Fish is low in fat, high in protein, perfect for our waistline. Fish also is an excellent source of omega 3 fatty acids, which is essential for our normal body functioning. If you have not already included fish in your diet, consider the reasons below, to do so now…
 Fish for Healthy Heart
 Health experts say that eating fish at least twice a week significantly reduce risks of acquiring heart disease. It stabilizes blood pressure, and prevents inflammation and clots in the body. So if you love eating non-vegetarian food, consider switching to just fish; that way your binging can actually be good for your heart!

 Fish for Energy Production

 Those of you who are into sports would know that fish is a recommended protein to produce energy in body. The fatty acids contained in fish are one of the best contributors to the energy production of your body. They increase your physical, as well as mental, capacity. You can even combat fatigue by eating fish at least twice a week. Eating fish is also good for the functioning of your eyes and brain nerves, which in turn improve concentration.
 Fish for Healthy Nervous System
 Doctors worldwide recommend consumption of fish regularly for healthy functioning of brain cells and nervous system. Eating fish regularly is also known to combat mental conditions like depression and schizophrenia. It has also shown positive results in preventing Alzheimer’s disease.
 Fish for Skin and Hair
 Unsaturated fats in fish provide essential fatty acids to our body, which act as a natural moisturiser for our skin, keeping it toned and supple. These fats also come packaged with a healthy dose of vitamin E that can immune your skin against daily wear and tear. If you are conscious of your skin and hair, you can also consume fish oil, which will supply your body with high amount of omega-3 fatty acids, which is fabulous to keep your skin healthy and alive. Fish oil also increases hair growth and helps reduce wrinkles. So be healthy and feel young!
 Fish for Leaner Body
 The protein in fish is very easy to digest than beef, pork or chicken. Eating fish is often recommended by dieticians for those trying to lose weight, as fish contain all essential amino acids in the required balance. Fish is also rich in two very important minerals which can be challenging to get in sufficient quantities from other foods like iodine. Iodine is present in salt also, but most of the diet schedules recommend reducing salt intake, in that case fish is a good source to substitute the mineral. Fish will also provide you with protein, which is also known to help weight reduction.

Eating fish in any form is healthy, simply because of the amount of nutrients present in them. However, there are some accepted healthy ways of eating fish, including baked, poached, grilled and steamed.
 Take your pick and binge sans guilt!

Get the perfect two-toned lips

                       
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In flat two minutes, get the hot-on-trend two-toned pout, using our easy-to-follow guide…

  1. Splash some water on your lips and use a mild scrub or exfoliator to clear off the dead skin. If you don’t have an exfoliator, take some sugar granules on your finger tips and rub them gently on your lips. Once they are well polished, apply a lip balm or a not-too-shiny gloss.
  1. Using a nude lip liner, line your lips and fill the upper lip with the darker of the two lipstick shades. Try and pick shades from the colour family of ombre. Or, for a more experimental festive look, you can include metallic shades of gold and mixing them with pinks, reds and oranges.
  2. On the lower lip, using a brush, sweep the same colour along the outer edge, blending upwards and keeping the centre of the lip free of colour. Use a lip brush or your finger tips to blend.
  3. Apply the lighter lipstick shade on the centre of your lower lip and blend the two shades together, going from light to dark.